Chose Patience
We all get frustrated by the many interruptions and inconveniences in our lives. Every time we plan to do something, something happens or someone cones along to upset the plan. That was once very irritating to me and the bane of my life. "Why can't I do what I want to do?"
Someone said, "Life is what happens while we are planning something else." The secrete is to recognize that fact. It is a fact! That is the way life is!
It all gets back to selflessness. Recognizing that we are (I am) not the center of the universe and that there are things and people just as important, is the start of the solution. If we can learn that it is our nature to interact with others, that interaction will become the normal state of our lives and not an interruption.
When our course is changed, we can accept the change in direction and go with the flow. A delay of plans is only that. Instead of cursing the delay or interruption, we can thank God that we are not adrift in this world alone to fend for ourselves.
We have places to go and things to do but if we are delayed, it may give us the opportunity to reflect on God's gifts and say a prayer of thanks. When things don't happen as quickly as we would like, take consolation in the fact that they will happen in due time and will be appreciated more when they finally do. And when something does not happen, recognize that there may be a reason which is beyond our understanding and look for an alternative which may be even better.
There are many opportunities to be patient. When we practice this virtue it brings calmness and peace of mind. It also brings consideration and respect from people who will prefer to interact with a patient person rather than the self important one who is angry and demanding.
When we are behind the person with 16 items in the "10 or less" line, relax and do a little people watching. It is a great pastime. When the train blocks you way, listen to the radio or contemplate the meaning of life. When someone takes your place consider the pressures and stress of that person and be grateful that you are not him (her).
Chose Patience ...
Don Plefka
01/18/03
|
Thoughts About
... Choices
|
|
|
Chose Patience
Don
Plefka |
|
| The
World of Grandpa Don www.plefka.net |
|
|
by The JavaScript Source | |
